(Picture a sticky note from God on an invitation.)
"Behold I stand at the door and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup with him, and he with me."
It is a sad thing when people feel the the need to foist their beliefs onto others. When someone tries to tell you what you believe, or don't believe, is wrong, please feel free to picture yourself in the above scripture, modern day version.
If I knock at the door, and inherently that means I don't barge in and throw my weight around with thou shalts and thou shalt nots, you needn't entertain those who do. I will always wait for an invitation. I'll wait for my children's
"Come on in! I've made soup..." Because that's how Love really works.